A Message to Women

Being a woman comes with so much baggage, we must carry ourselves a certain way, we must be respectful and polite because if we aren’t then we will be labeled as unpleasant or crazy. That’s our reality it comes with the territory, you must understand that. As women we set the standard, the standard for other women, children, and especially men to follow. As women we have the ability to influence the world, therefore we must be conscious of our thoughts and what we put out in the world. One of the problems with women now is that we get hurt and we use that hurt to hurt others or spread negativity because we don’t want to harbor those emotions ourselves. That’s the pattern in today's society, a man does us wrong, we go to social media to bash him and his behavior, that then brings attention from him and other males to come in and save us, but in reality, you’re attracting what you’re putting out. The negative things you said about someone that has hurt you has attracted other men to believe that they can come in a save you or make you feel better in some type of way, when in reality you should be using that energy to be nourishing yourself and fixing yourself to attract better than what you once had. As women we are emotional beings hence the reason why we harbor emotions and can feel more emotions than men. What differentiates the strong women from the weak is that the strong women have the ability to control and balance those emotions and turn them into good. It’s okay to be hurt, it’s okay to feel resentment but don’t allow these emotions to make you bitter or defeat you. Once you turn bitter or you’ve been defeated you’ll begin to devalue yourself and I think from there we all can guess what might happen. This week I want to challenge us women to try to control our emotions and really dig in deep within ourselves to figure out what it is we want in life, we are the assets without us nothing is possible, please don’t forget who you are.