Love is about appreciation, not possession. Again, love is the act of appreciating not possessing. To appreciate means to be grateful of and to recognize full worth of something without changing anything and I think that’s exactly what love is supposed to be about, no matter what kind of love it is; self love, love for a significant other, friendly love, and/or family love. No matter how you look at it, you should be appreciating the people you say you “love” and if it’s anything other than appreciation then it’s not real love. Love and lust are two different things that can be mixed up very easily, I look at lust in the same way, I believe lust is the act of appreciation and possession of ones body and mind. See with lust you can actually possess ones mind and have some type of control over them, often times we look past the possession part because lust does our body good and it feels good to know someone wants to own you or you own someone else, but lust doesn’t do any good to our souls, our true selves, it suppresses the true version of yourself and allows a different person to unfold. Therefore, if you have a choice, which you do, choose love every time, specifically self love. Self love is like a gateway, it will lead you to where you are destined to be.
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