Character

Practice what you preach and be who you “say” you are. This is the number one flaw with many people today, everyone has an opinion about someone else’s lives and what they’re doing wrong with their lives and not enough input on their own and that’s where character comes into play. Your character is how people will perceive you no matter what you’re saying out of your mouth, no matter if you’re preaching the good gospel or giving life advice, no one will hear you if you don’t practice what you preach. Often times the people that are speaking know what they are talking about through experiences but have not CHANGED from their experiences which makes it hard for people to grasp the concept when they see no valid outcome. This is why I say it’s important to speak not preach about life experiences with people because we can learn and grow from each other which is the point of relationships. What we fail to do is speak life into these situations, instead we scare people off by making it seem like there’s only one outcome for mistakes, which is completely wrong. The point that I’m making is in order for people to grow we must speak life into situations, we can’t expect everyone to understand where we are coming from if we haven’t even got to where we are going because we are all still learning. The learning doesn’t stop each day there’s a new lesson to be learned but speak amongst one another, don’t preach take the time to understand one another so the message is throughly RECEIVED. If you were once in someone’s position think about how you would have wanted the advice given to you?