There are two types of people in this world, people that give to life and people who take from life, we become the life that we live and our actions become us, this is why it’s always important to think before you react and learn from each reaction. Most of the times when we react in an irrational manner it’s because of our internal fight or flight response, when we feel stressed or attacked we get in survival mode and automatically protect our egos and our feelings. If someone or a certain situation moves us the wrong way we try to make others feel the same way that we felt instead of dealing with it on our own. But what we are really doing is putting that negative energy back into the world without fully realizing that it will always come back to us in some way, shape or form. If we think before we react and take the time to feel our emotions and resonate them into words or more controlled actions then we will be able to express ourselves in a more understanding manner. A calm mind is a sound mind, we are supposed to feel emotions, not act them out, every time you react the wrong way it takes you off of your destined course and you move backward rather than forward. Each encounter you have, whether that be with a situation or a person, that moves you the wrong way or takes you out of your natural element should be a lesson learned that way you’re always moving towards the positive. Yeah life is going to be difficult and scary at times but if you haven’t noticed life is also a pattern, shit is always going to happen, you’ll never be able to control it. But what you can control is how you react to the situations you are placed in, that’s the only dependent variable in life, you. How do you want to say you spent the majority of your life, getting through shit or going through shit?
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