Settling

I don’t know who needs to hear this but choosing yourself is not settling. Too often are there times where we are placed in predicaments where we have to choose one side or the other, but there’s always a 3rd choice and it’s you. Choosing to remove yourself from a situation or even choosing to just focus on yourself entirely without giving your energy to the situation at the time is not settling and if people cannot understand that then they probably don’t have your best interest in mind. The people involved may try to make you feel bad or even throw jabs at you for doing this but you have to remember that each choice that you make falls on you, no one else. It’s you that has to deal with the consequences of your decisions not the person who’s pressuring you to pick a side. If there’s a clear choice and you feel completely comfortable with it go for it, but if you’re torn between the two and can’t make a conscience decision don’t force it, go for the 3rd choice. In the end you’re choosing yourself therefore you could never lose.